Plays Well With Others

The Way I Am…

A little insight into what makes me tick. I’m pretty easy-going, although I do have my moments of moodiness. I cherish my alone time, but also enjoy spending time with the people that are special to me. I’m pretty basic. I like to go out and have fun occasionally, but probably enjoy quiet nights at home better.

Wifey™ can probably tell everyone better if I’m a pain in the ass to live with. I’d probably do better off living by myself, because I’m pretty particular about how things are around the house. Ugh.

I’ve got a lot of opinions when it comes to how things look or where things go. It’s just my nature and I can’t change it. You either have to deal with it and accept it or not. You don’t have to agree with me and I’ve been known to be persuaded into changing my mind. I’m actually pretty flexible if you can come up with a good argument for changing something. I just don’t like someone saying “put it there because” and not having a good reason for it. My theory is that everything should have a reason for being somewhere… kind of like design. You just dont stick something somewhere because… you have to have a reason.

I also like to keep the door to my house open. Not in the literal sense, but in the sense that everyone I know is always welcome to drop by without calling ahead of time. Just expect that if you drop by unexpectedly, you’ll probably enter a messy house. I dont care if you dont. Also, any of our friends and family are welcome to our guest room while in town. It’s part of my open door thing. People have been nice enough to welcome me into their homes in the past and I just think I should leave the door open also. The only stipulation is that I have to know you and trust you if you’re going to stay in my house. I certainly don’t need to have anyone ripping me off. 🙂 So all those people out there that I talk to… start planning that trip to California. I’ll show you around. Ugh.

Which brings me to another thing. Trust. It’s a biggie in my book. People who don’t trust me, don’t need to be in my life. I trust most anyone and I expect it in return. It’s huge and if it doesn’t exist then it’s definately a relationship ender. In my relationships, I expect the person I’m with to trust me without question. That means trust my other relationships with other men or women. I don’t need to be questioned about them and I certainly don’t need jealousy affecting the relationships I have with my friends.

As for people I like to be around. You have to be well-balanced. I like people that can make me laugh, but also have a serious side, but not TOO serious. I like people that enjoy life. You have to enjoy life, since you don’t know when it’s going to end. Overall, people with a good attitude. Don’t be mean to me and I won’t be mean to you.

Overall, I just want to enjoy life. And the people around me need to be on the same page. People need to know that what’s mine is there’s. If they need a place to stay, just let me know and I’ll set up a bed for you. And if you have a good attitude, you’ll get one in return.

Pretty simple if you ask me… and now you know all the important stuff about me. Ugh.

5 Responses to 'The Way I Am…'

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    Brigitte | 14 May 2004

    Nah you aren’t that hard to live with, besides the sex is pretty good so I think I will keep you around for a while longer.


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    Greg | 14 May 2004

    Anyone else want to barf along with me. Ugh.


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    Nicole | 15 May 2004

    You certainly say “Ugh” a lot. 🙂


  4. personal avatar
    Greg | 17 May 2004

    Yeah… and “erm” too. Don’t forget “erm”.


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    Joanna | 19 May 2004

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    Well put! I agree with that too…even if it doesn’t always happen :-0 But hey, I try!


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